15 Wherefore I also, after I heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus, and love unto all the saints, 16 Cease not to give thanks for you, making mention of you in my prayers;
What is the ultimate proof that someone is a follower of Jesus? Something so important that its absence should prompt a person to reevaluate their spiritual condition.
Let’s go to the Master Himself to find the answer to such an important question. On the night before his death, Jesus was eager to share important truths with his disciples to help their faith endure after he was gone. One of the many things he said is found in John 13:35. The Carol Paraphrase Version reads: “This is how everyone will be able to recognize that you are a true follower of mine: if you love one another with a sacrificial love.”
In today’s passage listed above, both Paul and the Ephesians exemplify such love. Let’s first look at the believers from Ephesus. What reputation did they have that reached Paul all the way to Rome, where he was imprisoned?
First, they were known for their faith. The two Greek words Paul uses, translated “your,” mean “among you.” In other words, their faith wasn’t only personal and internal; it was visible among them. It was evident in how they acted and treated one another. Their daily life reflected their faith.
The second attribute they were known for was their love for all other believers. The Greek word for “love” is “agape.” This term is frequently used to describe God’s selfless and unconditional love. The Greeks had different words for different kinds of love, and this term referred to its most universal form.
The word “saints” refers to believers. It doesn’t imply a particular level of morality or holiness in their lives; otherwise, I’m sure they wouldn’t be called saints! Rather, it means “separated for” or “devoted to” God. It shows how the Lord sets apart for himself those who put their trust in Jesus.
Paul doesn’t specify exactly what the Ephesians did to earn such an excellent reputation, but I’m sure we can imagine it quite well. Expressions of love haven’t changed in thousands of years. I suppose they helped those in need, encouraged one another when downcast, were kind and patient, and didn’t give up. I’m not saying they were never irritated, angry, or hurt! But when that happened, they forgave. What’s more, they behaved this way not only with members of their own church but with all believers!
Let’s now move on to Paul. How is he an example of love? He’s in prison, so it’s not as if he can do much to help or bless the Ephesians. In addition, they are separated by more than a thousand miles! But there is one thing he can do: pray. Not once or twice, or even from time to time, but habitually, never failing to give thanks for them.
I don’t know about you, but I find that praying regularly for someone is hard. I have no problem praying once or twice, or even for a week or two. But for months, or even years? That requires more discipline and dedication. And yes, love.
We’ll see next time what Paul prays for the Ephesian believers. Whenever I read Paul’s prayers across all his letters, not just in Ephesians, I am struck by his deep concern and care. His words reflect a profound love, and, frankly, I sometimes feel guilty because I don’t see the same depth of feeling in myself. Not for such a large group of people, anyway.
The good news is that Jesus can fill our hearts with such love. That’s why He says it’s the mark of being His follower. Growing closer to Him and becoming more like Him will result in more love. If we don’t see this happening in us, it’s probably a good idea to figure out why.